The Austin Dating Scene

Hey what up everyone. Thanks for coming back to my blog. I am really grateful to my loyal readers. Let me bring you up to speed on what has happened since my last entry. First of all, I redid my profile on the online dating site. I really spent a lot of time writing down and thinking about all the things I really like and do not like. I do not get as many responses since I made this change but the messages I am getting seem to be higher quality and more qualified. I don't seem to be wasting my time as much anymore. I went on 4 dates since my last blog entry and 3 of them were a total waste of time and money. The girls I were with were not my type for one reason or another. I have only been on one date since I changed my profile and that date went pretty well. I am pretty much starting from scratch yet again with this new profile. I am going to spend tonight and well every night for that matter going through the site and sending out messages to the new girls that have joined the site. The good thing is that there is fresh meat that join the site everyday. Every single day you can login and look at the new users and you will see lots of girls of all shapes and sizes and ages and stuff that just joined and haven't yet been bombarded by lots of guys. I prefer to just message the new users now than going through the site. Also when I first go back online, I pretty much contacted every hot girl that lived close enough to me so now I pretty much only got the new users to deal with.

I don't know if I'll make it home tonight, but I know I can swim... under the Tahitian moon. I never really understood what those lyrics meant but I think I do now. I think it has something to do with what I posed above. Anyways, I am probably boring you guys with this shit. Let me tell you about the date that I went on - the new girl that actually went well. So she replied to my messages on the dating site and I took a while to read her profile to make sure we actually had the same interests. For example, I like to watch certain tv shows religiously so I need to make sure I am going out with girls that like to watch TV otherwise I will end up with someone I am not compatible with. I am starting to become a firm believer that you need to be friends with a girl first before you can form a relationship. For me what I usually do, is I look at the girl from strictly a romantic point of view, what does she look like, is she sexy etc. I figure I can deal with her personality probably. This I think is the wrong way to go about things because it hasn't worked for me in the past. Ok so let me tell you about this good date I went on with this girl named Catherine. She is 25 and she works for her dad's company in import and export. She is quite attractive and I asked her to go out for dinner with me on Friday night. I will tell you how it all went down.

I told her she should take a taxi and meet me at this col restaurant called Iron Cactus Mexican Grill & Margarita Bar. It is a cool place and obviously not fine dining but I waned to take this particular girl to a place that wasn't so formal. I took the last 3 girls I went out with on dates to nice restaurants and it ended up being a total waste of money. They also said they didn't really like the place and I was like wtf bitch, I just dropped $200 on a dinner grr and you don't even like it or appreciate the food. Fucking donkey whores. Anyways, so I got to the restaurant at 6:15 and I was 15 minutes late. I was in a bad mood overall since the previous 3 dates were all shit and I wasn't expecting much from this girl so I purposely showed up late to see what she would do. To my surprise there she was sitting and smiling when I walked up to the table. I made up some lame excuse and she just smiled and said don't worry about it etc. I was like ok cool, so we ordered some drinks and started to order food. The food was pretty good and the drinks were really good but the service was kind of slow. After dinner we hopped in a taxi and headed over to her place. She invited me up and we went up and had a drink. I kissed her a bit and then we fooled around on the couch for a bit. Eventually I left but I had a really good time. I am going to go and see her again this weekend but I am not sure if she is the one for me. At least he has restored my faith that not all women are flakey dumbass donkeys.