The Austin Dating Scene

I've been thinking of starting text message dating... Mainly it's comparable to online chatting except that you send text messages and get to interact with brand new people that way. I believed it might be entertaining to give it a try seeing that I am constantly playing with my Blackberry. I finally signed up to Text and Date and gave it a shot. A buddy of mine sent me the url over Windows live messenger and seriously hyped it up, so i thought what the hell.

Straight away I met this woman from Rond Rock. This woman sounded extremely interesting, works out we like many of the exact music, and are around the same age. We actually made plans to go out tomorrow for coffee so I'll document the way it went (of course, if meeting ladies with your cell phone really will work).

I became acquainted with lots of different girls too, a few promising and a few kind of strange, nevertheless I made a decision to merely concentrate on one or two considering it really is a whole lot to manage! I wish I can figure out how to consolidate my contacts on my phone, that'd help make things a good deal less difficult to manage. There are actually an amazing amount of ladies from Austin to choose from.

The greatest aspect about this has been I can mail simple texts even though I was at the office, at the mall, no matter what, much like I had been texting my buddies... Sometimes staying riveted to the computer will get exhausting you understand? I had a fairly interesting conversation with this one woman when I was visiting relatives even! At any rate whenever you are interested in learning everything click the link to check out Text and Date, You ought to without a doubt.

Oh my God what is wrong with women? That girl Catherine flaked out on me and I never ended up getting to bang her. You should see the weird email she sent me trying to explain why she didn't want to see me anymore. That is one of the things that pisses me off about women is that they are horrible liars and they lie all the time. I mean I wish she would have just told me the truth so I could have learned something from the experience but that is not how it has been going down for me sigh. They just make up something ridiculous and I am supposed to swallow it. Ok, perhaps guys can be like this too sometimes but I have been trying to be as honest as possible since my wife left me. Speaking of honesty though, I should be more honest with myself and realize that there is no way I am going to get into a relationship with someone only 25 years old. I went through my list of the girls I was talking to etc and deleted those that were too young. I now have a new age bracket that I am going to use all the time. I am only going to be pursuing women that are 27-45 now.

Hopefully putting the age down to 27 won't be too bad. It seems from my experience which is kind of limited that once women hit about 27 they stop acting like foo food donkey biatches. Not all of the them of course, I mean this is a bit of a generalization but it is a good gauge to use when I search for new girls to talk to. So I have been going through the online dating site that I am a member of and I have been sending out messages to women that are in that age range. One thing I have learned is that you can't just create some random message and then cut and paste that to all the girls you initiate contact with. You have to read their profile in detail and then when you message them you have to use something from their profile in the message you send them. The thing that sucks is when they don't say much in their profile. Then you have to put something generic like you sound like an interesting woman. I also noticed that females prefer to be called women vs being called girls.

One of the new girls errr I mean women I met recently is 41 and her name is Tabitha. She looks much younger just like I do. I think I look about 35 and so does she so that is cool. She runs her own consulting business for small businesses. She is one of these people that gives seminars and is very outgoing etc. I told her we should get together for coffee because I have concluded that is the best way to do a first date now. She was a bit hesitant at first because I think she is used to having guys take her out for dinner but fuck that, she needs to earn dinner first lol. So I told her to meet me at this cool coffee place called Bouldin Creek Coffee House around 4pm. I got there early so I could see her mannerisms as she came in. When she did come in, she looked extremely confident. She came over and I stood up and she gave me a hug hello which kind of surprised me. We sat and drank coffee and chatted for a few hours. She seemed a bit uptight and a bit formal but I guess that was just all her training kicking in as a defense mechanism or something. Eventually we left, she gave me another hug and we parted ways. I have been chatting with her off and on this week and I asked her out for dinner this weekend, waiting to hear back from her.