coffee

Oh my God what is wrong with women? That girl Catherine flaked out on me and I never ended up getting to bang her. You should see the weird email she sent me trying to explain why she didn't want to see me anymore. That is one of the things that pisses me off about women is that they are horrible liars and they lie all the time. I mean I wish she would have just told me the truth so I could have learned something from the experience but that is not how it has been going down for me sigh. They just make up something ridiculous and I am supposed to swallow it. Ok, perhaps guys can be like this too sometimes but I have been trying to be as honest as possible since my wife left me. Speaking of honesty though, I should be more honest with myself and realize that there is no way I am going to get into a relationship with someone only 25 years old. I went through my list of the girls I was talking to etc and deleted those that were too young. I now have a new age bracket that I am going to use all the time. I am only going to be pursuing women that are 27-45 now.

Hopefully putting the age down to 27 won't be too bad. It seems from my experience which is kind of limited that once women hit about 27 they stop acting like foo food donkey biatches. Not all of the them of course, I mean this is a bit of a generalization but it is a good gauge to use when I search for new girls to talk to. So I have been going through the online dating site that I am a member of and I have been sending out messages to women that are in that age range. One thing I have learned is that you can't just create some random message and then cut and paste that to all the girls you initiate contact with. You have to read their profile in detail and then when you message them you have to use something from their profile in the message you send them. The thing that sucks is when they don't say much in their profile. Then you have to put something generic like you sound like an interesting woman. I also noticed that females prefer to be called women vs being called girls.

One of the new girls errr I mean women I met recently is 41 and her name is Tabitha. She looks much younger just like I do. I think I look about 35 and so does she so that is cool. She runs her own consulting business for small businesses. She is one of these people that gives seminars and is very outgoing etc. I told her we should get together for coffee because I have concluded that is the best way to do a first date now. She was a bit hesitant at first because I think she is used to having guys take her out for dinner but fuck that, she needs to earn dinner first lol. So I told her to meet me at this cool coffee place called Bouldin Creek Coffee House around 4pm. I got there early so I could see her mannerisms as she came in. When she did come in, she looked extremely confident. She came over and I stood up and she gave me a hug hello which kind of surprised me. We sat and drank coffee and chatted for a few hours. She seemed a bit uptight and a bit formal but I guess that was just all her training kicking in as a defense mechanism or something. Eventually we left, she gave me another hug and we parted ways. I have been chatting with her off and on this week and I asked her out for dinner this weekend, waiting to hear back from her.

I am so sorry to my readers that I haven't posted anything in 2 weeks. I have just been so busy with work and life and dating etc. I didn't realize I would meet so many women online once I joined the dating site. So I will try and do my best to get you all caught up on things. I am working on a major client at work. If I get this deal then I can relax for the rest of the year it is so big.

So I went out with Kilana the Hawaiin receptionist at a law firm. I decided to take her out to Benihana Japanese Steakhouse rather than take her somewhere super expensive the first time around. I did this on purpose for a couple of reasons. First of all I am getting sick of taking girls out and spending a fortune on them only to end up with no action at the end of the night or to never hear from them again. Also I want to be able to start slowly with this girl so the next time I take her out I can take her to a really fancy place rather than show her all my cards the first time.

The place was ok, we had some steaks and some sushi and I pretty much ate too much while I was there because I was happy the prices were lower than what I was used to. She said she had moved to Austin from Hawaii about 4 years ago because she had secured her job at the law firm through a series of online remote interviews. She said she was pretty cautious when it comes to meeting guys because she was married before to an abusive husband who physically beat her up and I was like ah that could be an issue. I was thinking does this girl have too much baggage cuz I have never been out with a girl who was physically abused.

I didn't drink too much and I was starting to feel pretty sleepy but I could tell from the way she was squirming in her seat that she didn't want the night to end just yet so I ordered 4 shots of Jaeger and 2 cups of coffee and tried to wake up and think about where I could take her next. So I went on to my iphone and looked around at some hot spots I could take her to.

I took her to this cheap place called "Spill Bar" on sixth. They have lots of cheap drink specials and a high energy vibe to the place. I didn't want to take her to a fancy dark lounge because we would just fall asleep and the jaeger shots were starting to kick in. The place was jumping, busy as hell, luckily I am a baller and just greased the doorman $20 to skip the lineup. The place was shoulder to shoulder with people and I could have sworn someone grabbed my ass as I was walking through the place to the bar... hopefully it was a female lol and not some random gay dude. There was no place to sit down so we just stood near the bar drinking beers, doing shots, and eventually she dragged me on to the dance floor. I am not much of a dancer but once I get drunk enough, I am willing to put in the effort and commit to the dancing even though I might look like a dork. There were lots of hot young girls around me and a couple of them were eyeing me and even grinding up on me and that made Kilana jealous which I had a lot of fun with. A little jealousy goes a long way.

I was really plastered by the time the bar closed and they turned on all the lights. I was feeling queezy like I was gonna hurl chunks, so quickly got out of there and nearly got hit by a taxi trying to get a ride home. Somehow we ended up finding a taxi and piling into it. I just sat in the back seat with my head leaned back and she sat beside me sort of cuddling up next to me. We kissed a few times in the back seat but I was in no condition to take this girl to bed - I had drank too much, so I figured if she DID want to sleep with me, it could only be a good thing to turn her down cuz that will just make her want me more and I can bang her another time when I can actually feel my body parts. Being numb sucks. So I told her I wasn't up for much more and that we should get together another time. She hopped out at her place after a few more kisses in front of her place and then the taxi driver took me home. Woke up the next morning with my clothes on face first on my bed. Ughhh.