Hey what up everyone. Thanks for coming back to my blog. I am really grateful to my loyal readers. Let me bring you up to speed on what has happened since my last entry. First of all, I redid my profile on the online dating site. I really spent a lot of time writing down and thinking about all the things I really like and do not like. I do not get as many responses since I made this change but the messages I am getting seem to be higher quality and more qualified. I don't seem to be wasting my time as much anymore. I went on 4 dates since my last blog entry and 3 of them were a total waste of time and money. The girls I were with were not my type for one reason or another. I have only been on one date since I changed my profile and that date went pretty well. I am pretty much starting from scratch yet again with this new profile. I am going to spend tonight and well every night for that matter going through the site and sending out messages to the new girls that have joined the site. The good thing is that there is fresh meat that join the site everyday. Every single day you can login and look at the new users and you will see lots of girls of all shapes and sizes and ages and stuff that just joined and haven't yet been bombarded by lots of guys. I prefer to just message the new users now than going through the site. Also when I first go back online, I pretty much contacted every hot girl that lived close enough to me so now I pretty much only got the new users to deal with.
I don't know if I'll make it home tonight, but I know I can swim... under the Tahitian moon. I never really understood what those lyrics meant but I think I do now. I think it has something to do with what I posed above. Anyways, I am probably boring you guys with this shit. Let me tell you about the date that I went on - the new girl that actually went well. So she replied to my messages on the dating site and I took a while to read her profile to make sure we actually had the same interests. For example, I like to watch certain tv shows religiously so I need to make sure I am going out with girls that like to watch TV otherwise I will end up with someone I am not compatible with. I am starting to become a firm believer that you need to be friends with a girl first before you can form a relationship. For me what I usually do, is I look at the girl from strictly a romantic point of view, what does she look like, is she sexy etc. I figure I can deal with her personality probably. This I think is the wrong way to go about things because it hasn't worked for me in the past. Ok so let me tell you about this good date I went on with this girl named Catherine. She is 25 and she works for her dad's company in import and export. She is quite attractive and I asked her to go out for dinner with me on Friday night. I will tell you how it all went down.
I told her she should take a taxi and meet me at this col restaurant called Iron Cactus Mexican Grill & Margarita Bar. It is a cool place and obviously not fine dining but I waned to take this particular girl to a place that wasn't so formal. I took the last 3 girls I went out with on dates to nice restaurants and it ended up being a total waste of money. They also said they didn't really like the place and I was like wtf bitch, I just dropped $200 on a dinner grr and you don't even like it or appreciate the food. Fucking donkey whores. Anyways, so I got to the restaurant at 6:15 and I was 15 minutes late. I was in a bad mood overall since the previous 3 dates were all shit and I wasn't expecting much from this girl so I purposely showed up late to see what she would do. To my surprise there she was sitting and smiling when I walked up to the table. I made up some lame excuse and she just smiled and said don't worry about it etc. I was like ok cool, so we ordered some drinks and started to order food. The food was pretty good and the drinks were really good but the service was kind of slow. After dinner we hopped in a taxi and headed over to her place. She invited me up and we went up and had a drink. I kissed her a bit and then we fooled around on the couch for a bit. Eventually I left but I had a really good time. I am going to go and see her again this weekend but I am not sure if she is the one for me. At least he has restored my faith that not all women are flakey dumbass donkeys.
Saturday, November 7. 2009
So close, and yet so far
Last night I went out with Rebecca the dermatologist. I decided not to take her to Fleming's because she is not big on steak etc... instead we went to Roy's Austin Hawaiian Fusion on 2nd Street. I picked her up in my car because I didn't plan on having lots of drinks and figured I would still be able to drive by the end of the night. I had seen pictures of her online, but most of the pictures were dark and in a crowd of people etc. When she walked out the of lobby of her condo I nearly had a heart attack at how hot she was and how well dressed she was and yeah of course she had perfect skin. She climbed in and introduced herself and we shook hands. She had some grip to her handshake so I was happy about that... I hate girls who have dead fish handshakes. The smell of her perfume was very strong but very nice. I had a hard time focusing on what she was saying because I was very excited and very nervous. She is probably the hottest girl I have ever been out with in my life... and she is smart and whitty and intelligent. She noticed Felix's dog leash and mentioned that she herself has a Maltese and that the 4 of us should go for a walk sometime.
We arrive at Roy's, park, go inside, get a nice table, sit down and order drinks. I ordered a light beer because I was driving and she ordered a glass of Chardonnay from Australia. She said she was 36 but she looked older, and not in a bad way. She just looked very womanly with long brown hair, obviously straightened. She said she was half Irish and half American but she never spent any time in Ireland and she didn't have an accent. The waiter brought us the menus and I really had no idea what to order, so I told her, just order some things and we will split it all. Again, I had a hard time of focusing on doing anything because I was fixated by her presence. I was thinking to myself at some point, there is no way you are going to get anywhere with this girl if you keep exuding this energy. You need to chill out and act as if she is nothing special, otherwise she will smell my desperation and realize how enamored I am by her.
I still have no idea what I ate... the only thing I remember was some of it was fruity and some of it was spicy and there was some kind of meat in there lol. She was talking about her various accomplishments etc and I was starting again to feel overwhelmed so I ordered a Black Russian to calm my nerves. This triggered something in her because she said lets get some shots! I was like wow shots ok... that was out of left field, perhaps I incorrectly judged this girl, maybe she isn't as responsible, and classy as I think. She was so good looking though, I decided to ignore my instincts and go with the flow. 1 shot turned into 2, and 2 turned into 3. Then I switched to double black russians. SO at his point we paid the bill and decided to head over to a lounge to keep the night rolling. I had to leave my car at the restaurant because I had drank too much so we took a taxi over to QUA Bottle Lounge on West Fourth Street which is a new upscale cocktail lounge.
We had some more drinks there and she was getting very flirty and was touching my hands a lot. I was really happy and excited but I was too bombed out of my mind to enjoy it. Eventually we left there and took a taxi back to her place. On the way there, I was all excited like a schoolgirl at the prospect of spending the night with this girl. We got about 3 blocks from her house when all of a sudden I got a sudden rush of heat and felt like I was gonna hurl. I told the taxi driver to pull over and I opened the door and spewed chunks everywhere. When I was done, I was sweating, and dizzy... I told her we better just call it a night and just gave me a kiss on the cheek and left. I'm pretty sure I ruined things and she won't be talking to me again.
We arrive at Roy's, park, go inside, get a nice table, sit down and order drinks. I ordered a light beer because I was driving and she ordered a glass of Chardonnay from Australia. She said she was 36 but she looked older, and not in a bad way. She just looked very womanly with long brown hair, obviously straightened. She said she was half Irish and half American but she never spent any time in Ireland and she didn't have an accent. The waiter brought us the menus and I really had no idea what to order, so I told her, just order some things and we will split it all. Again, I had a hard time of focusing on doing anything because I was fixated by her presence. I was thinking to myself at some point, there is no way you are going to get anywhere with this girl if you keep exuding this energy. You need to chill out and act as if she is nothing special, otherwise she will smell my desperation and realize how enamored I am by her.
I still have no idea what I ate... the only thing I remember was some of it was fruity and some of it was spicy and there was some kind of meat in there lol. She was talking about her various accomplishments etc and I was starting again to feel overwhelmed so I ordered a Black Russian to calm my nerves. This triggered something in her because she said lets get some shots! I was like wow shots ok... that was out of left field, perhaps I incorrectly judged this girl, maybe she isn't as responsible, and classy as I think. She was so good looking though, I decided to ignore my instincts and go with the flow. 1 shot turned into 2, and 2 turned into 3. Then I switched to double black russians. SO at his point we paid the bill and decided to head over to a lounge to keep the night rolling. I had to leave my car at the restaurant because I had drank too much so we took a taxi over to QUA Bottle Lounge on West Fourth Street which is a new upscale cocktail lounge.
We had some more drinks there and she was getting very flirty and was touching my hands a lot. I was really happy and excited but I was too bombed out of my mind to enjoy it. Eventually we left there and took a taxi back to her place. On the way there, I was all excited like a schoolgirl at the prospect of spending the night with this girl. We got about 3 blocks from her house when all of a sudden I got a sudden rush of heat and felt like I was gonna hurl. I told the taxi driver to pull over and I opened the door and spewed chunks everywhere. When I was done, I was sweating, and dizzy... I told her we better just call it a night and just gave me a kiss on the cheek and left. I'm pretty sure I ruined things and she won't be talking to me again.
